Marriage needs intention and attention, a lot of it in clear and precise doses. Marriage is like a plant, when you sow the seed you need to give it attention. In order to stay healthy, a plant requires daily attention and care, such as water and sunlight. Taking care of a plant isn't difficult, but ...
Imaam, Aboo Daawood (d.275) collected in his Sunan (#4174) that Aboo Hurayrah encountered a woman who was wearing perfume, and the tail of her garment was dusty. He said,